A Date with Destiny

“If you want to have a date with Destiny you must first get to know Patience & Hard Work!”

They say blessed are those who wait, but what that really means is blessed are those who work. Oftentimes people confuse patience with sitting idle, but in actuality patience is to be combined with persistence, preparation, and positioning.

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Letting Go of Toxic People

Just as it is good for our body to rid itself of toxins, the same is true for our life. Oftentimes we hold on to people that are draining us and we call it love or loyalty. There comes a point in our life that we must take inventory. Evaluate everyone that we are connected to and ask ourselves; are they helping or are they hindering? If it is the latter then we have to make a decision, and then take massive action.

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South Africa, Here I Come!

I’ve been a Professional Speaker since the age of 23. But being a country boy I’m not to fond of flying. I finally decided that in 2013 I’d start accepting International bookings and overcome my fear of flying. There had always been talks of me going to speak outside of America but I think subconsciously I blocked them. Well now I’m not doing that anymore.

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Make Them Believers…

Have you ever had someone say something negative to you and that one thing made you change your entire approach to what you were doing? I’m sure you have. You have to consider the source. Most often the “hateration” comes from a friend, family member, or someone that doesn’t matter in the grand scheme of things.

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Does He Really Love You?

You can’t save someone that doesn’t want to be saved. I was recently notified about a rapper on a reality show that broke up with his girlfriend that everyone thought he was madly in love with. I remember the young lady saying on camera, “I think I can change him” or something to that effect. She would go to strip clubs with him and it looked as if they were having threesomes or an open relationship. It also looked like there may have been some drug use and other things. That was just my perception though.

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The Path to a Lifetime of Success is Through God

I’m 10 days away from my South Africa speaking engagement. I’m excited beyond words. I was thinking this morning though. I said to myself, who am I to be flown into South Africa with my security and to be paid some people’s year salary to speak? Who am I not to have a college degree and no plaques on my wall validating my existence? Who am I to be 29 years old and an international speaker and coach?

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Water the Seeds within you!

The ability to change your life doesn’t just show up, it was always there. You don’t have to go looking for it, all you have to do is discover it. Discover the ability to water the seeds that already lie dormant in you.  There are gifts that you were born with that can change your life. They just need to be identified and cultivated.

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Step Up or Step Out

There comes a time in a relationship when every woman wants to go to the next level. Dating isn’t enough, you need something more and that’s a life long commitment. It’s only natural and you deserve it. A man knows from the first real conversation what role he expects you to play in his life. He knows whether he is looking for a friend, girlfriend, or a wife. Just because he wants you to be one thing doesn’t mean that you can’t become something else.

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